A pretty Nigerian Lady, Chisom Eze has narrated how her five years old relationship with her ex-boyfriend crashed at the point of marriage.
Focus Naija can report that the damsel who hails from Enugu was ready to tie the knot with her boyfriend when they realized that both of them can not be joined together in marriage.
According to her, they were hiding the relationship from the prying eyes of friends and relatives who could have told them earlier that they were not marriageable.
She stated that it is forbidden and people from her umunna (kindred) do not necessarily marry from the kindred of the ex-boyfriend, so the time spent in the relationship amounted to waste. An update to post one’s partner made her to tell her experience on social media.
So today, I saw a memo on WhatsApp status that says ” post your partner, relationship is not cultism”
So it took me back to memory lane. I and my ex boyfriend dated for 5 years and all through the relationship, we were hiding from the eyes of people.
Finally decided to tie the knot and we find out that we can’t marry because our umunna (kindred) and theirs don’t marry . Nah so relationship take end.
All the wasted years could have been avoided if only I showed him off to a few people who knows us.
My advice is: learn to show your partner and ask questions when necessary in other to prevent unnecessary heart break